Hello Readers,

How are you all today? Feeling somehow good? Get your energy on, challenges are ahead of you, waiting to be resolved...

21st birthday? What's ur opinion? Well for me, it's just another birthday...nothing more....

but i do see many take this for serious, like celebrating it like a festival...I must confess that especially in Indian community which i basically en-rooted from, when a person finally reach 21 years old, it's the time for the family to have a second diwali in the form of birthday celebration...they would be calling and booking their relatives and some even go to an extra height by organizing it in a very colossal manner like reserving music bands and caterers and so much so on...well in a simpler word it would like a charade of festival!

But I never get the essence of such riot? I mean like seriously, why such extravagance? Well u just turn 21, not that promoted to be the president of USA, even the president himself wouldn't be celebrating as such this after his promotion though....

It's quite a whimsical scene looking at how these families shows up, like everyone in costumes and buying luxurious gifts... well i should limit this only not to indian families, but it's becoming a trend in Malaysia... p/s : every middle to high class family.....

Do you even have to announce to the entire world, well at least not to the entire district that you are living in,  that u r 21 now? have you ever asked urself that, u r now 21 and what have u done so far- productively? What have u done that u can be proud of for next 10 years the most? Who is ur financial investors, is it u or ur parents? If later part is true then do u really think of the necessity for such celebration?

Well i'm not writing this post to demotivate u guys from celebrating or truncate the entire mood of celebration or so similar...but just like a mirror resemblance...sometimes we do have to think about the importance of having something or celebrating something... well i do know if we are about to look reasons for everything, enjoyment in not the term for it...nevertheless moderation is always the key....i'm not asking u to stop enjoying the ever waited time of ur life, but do think about modesty in ur action... Why not do something good for others? when i mean others, i do really mean the one who needs ur care and compassion...money itself is not the answer but there are people who need something more than money, not gold, not diamonds, but LOVE....try to spread some love on ur 21st birthday and why not make this day of ur life as to embark such a noble cause of spreading LOVE...

okay people, when i mean LOVE, it's purely compassion and do not get naughty by flirting around just because i say, spread some LOVE, seriously! haha

Well i'm not in the mood of elucidating more on this, as i reckon u people are grown ups and should know on what should and shouldn't be done, and the wise theory behind ur actions, so period.


have a great week ahead and chaaaaaa


Much love,
param

Holla people,

It's one fine Friday today, well freakishly fine enough!  Yeah, i had my OOP midterm and I have no idea or single clue on whether I nailed it or screwed it. Whatever it is, let's not fret on bygones.
                        

Hey I need to ask you people, do you guys have this strong, peculiar, unexpected and uncontrollable urge on doing something that you shouldn't do during midterm period?

Well I should say, I do have this weird thing going on. I can't resist myself from watching my fav shows like project runway, ANTM and movies and reading novels during this kind of time. I hate myself doing all this unimportant stuff during this crucial period, owh but i just can't stop or refrain myself from doing it. Why can't I just do it some other time?

                       


So i had this one casual conversation with my besties right after the test, and know what,  they do have the same freakishly peculiar behavior or habit as mine. Owh thank god, i'm not alone!!

So here what I gotta say to those juniors of UNITEN....
Lil' something for those who are still figuring out the ways and measures ! How we actually survived? It's a miracle! I can't believe I'm actually writing this up :P

(If you have what it takes to succeed , and you know how to work it out, definitely you will be able to face all the prospective turbulence.)

Anyhow, we do study like till 6 and 7am without sleeping whole day, (uh, uh keep your judge in your pocket boy), it's not last minute, but it's the work of maestro! hahaha yeah....we are actually a bunch of smarty pants who love to sit in the front and listening to the lectures meanwhile it's passing from an ear to the other, but we do have this weird magic in us, that we put it all together and make things happen.

                           
How we do that? Confidence! yes it's important if you are a student and crucially mega important if you are an undergraduate. That is how you survive, well not mostly, but somehow it's a method in one way or another which actually works,at least for me.
                            

Prove? Yeah I have this one bestie, who love to watch movies especially during exam time but she always score her exam. It does't mean she didn't put her hardwork but simply because she trust herself and she pays attention to important facts. She loves reading and at the same time she never lose focus in class. Entertainment is very important if you are still studying, but don't take it too serious and enjoy your ass out because you can only be undergraduate for once, unless you repeat or take another course of studies , like double degree, per se....

So, what she all do is that, she study the important parts, she understand the concepts and then she work that out in a piece of paper and solve problem based questions. IF let's say you have no paper based sources, there's plenty on the net....you can always google it out and dang, done your issue.

Try to make a good use of metalab and UNITEN library resources. I'm sure most of you complaining about the miscellaneous fees you are paying for library services and all...just my saying, why not start using the facility rather paying bills blindly? I'm sure you can do way better than dating at shopping complexes and spending arms and legs at some expensive resorts #####justSayin'

                        

So that's what it all takes, and so that's how we survived our 3 years at here, counting another one more.....Time flies really fast damn!!! Nevertheless, i will never ask you to completely follow this, because it may work on us, it may not on you, remember "what's chocolate for me, may be mocha for you"- either way i love it hahah

Somehow, always try to figure out your own potential, what you are good at and and how you can put your own magic and signature onto it. Remember as i said before, your imprint is totally unique so don't simply follow up your friend just for the sake of following a style and ended up yourself being in a large loophole. Trust me, you can't afford pitfall during your sophomore or junior, senior years. It's the year when all your smart ass works and hard works speak for itself.

                                         

So this is how i always picture myself, enough advice for tonight...Have great fun fill weekend ahead.


Yours Truly,
Param.

Hey there all my avid readers...

Well I had this most random thoughts on thinking of all the miseries people are going through or went through, and will(pray hard not), just it hit me up so strong and insurmountably on my emotional perspective on why all this bad things are happening?

                               

I mean, why people born with physical impairments and mental disabilities? Why people are going through too many hardships and struggles in their life? Just because to add spice into life or making our life more meaningful as nothing comes so easily per se?

But i just don't find it fair or okay... even if let's say it's your karma or you are fated in such way, why not God give a free pass to all of us on one fine day, when we wake up all our faults and sins forgiven by Him, and we start afresh !



                




Then, we all will never have a single recount on our previous regressions. No human will be doing mistakes or wrongs after that happens. We'll be finally pure as in pure heart, thoughts and behavior.

We don't have to worry about crimes, cuz there will be no crimes after all the word crime will lose it's definition... People will be nice to each other, no racial partiality or substandard treatments. People will be finally reunited. Free to go on their path. No war, no drudgery, no hatred and no grudge. Love will be the only word that most prevalent to all of us. It will be a chant for unity and mantra for harmony.

                              

It will be the beginning for where people look at you as a human respect you beyond their ethical capacity. It's the day finally gender will be just a mere word with no attributes. It's the day where all our dreams are shared with the people we love, and love will be the only infectious plague.

It's the day where people finally realize the term ecology and start to cooperate with the mother nature and embark to retreat all the tolls they have had on the mother nature. Yes, it's the day when finally you know not only dogs' are men's best friend but all living and non living creatures are.

But will this day ever occur? I remember reading in Bhagavad Gita where there is a script sounds:

          "yada yada hi dharmasya glanir bhavati bharata abhyutthanam adharmasya 
            tadatmanam srjamy aham"- Chapter 4, Text 7

                                        

meaning, whenever or wherever there's a discrepancies subjected towards irreligious manifestation, I will descend Myself. We can clearly see, how this is defining on the current era. We are too censored by the environment from seeing the truth ourselves. We lost ourselves in entertainment, may it can be for good, but is it going to be like that for all day? We slowly forgetting our humane.... We enjoy mockeries, we love hurting each others both emotionally and physically. We love to criticize on people's nature as if we are the superiors. We create wars and enjoy the miseries it leads. We are happy when someone is in pain, instead of giving a helping hand, even if we do, we are expecting it to be mainstreamed and for magnified celebration of popularity. Where goes our virtues? Where is our idealness?

Again, if ever can those dreams stated above be achieved somehow, if and only if God feels so generous and make that a second full of magic and *bling* *bling*, we are all changed once and for all. Finally we can go out there say hi to another person without looking at what he is wearing, what color is his skin, what impairments he carries and what is his sexual orientation or whether he has any gender or identical crisis or is he short or tall, fat or slim, but all we do is listen and answer people with the very basic true human virtues.

But there is no need for God to perform this magic, because he created us the most advanced creatures on planet to make and take decisions ourselves, and that decision of ours is ought to make plausible changes to the environment we are livin' in. Question is, are we ready to make such a positive remark on our decision?

Have a great night you all, i leave the question at you , cuz I'm sure He made you for one good cause!

Have great days ahead,
Yours Loving Blogger Param.....

Hey kiddos,