Hello Readers,

How are you all today? Feeling somehow good? Get your energy on, challenges are ahead of you, waiting to be resolved...

21st birthday? What's ur opinion? Well for me, it's just another birthday...nothing more....

but i do see many take this for serious, like celebrating it like a festival...I must confess that especially in Indian community which i basically en-rooted from, when a person finally reach 21 years old, it's the time for the family to have a second diwali in the form of birthday celebration...they would be calling and booking their relatives and some even go to an extra height by organizing it in a very colossal manner like reserving music bands and caterers and so much so on...well in a simpler word it would like a charade of festival!

But I never get the essence of such riot? I mean like seriously, why such extravagance? Well u just turn 21, not that promoted to be the president of USA, even the president himself wouldn't be celebrating as such this after his promotion though....

It's quite a whimsical scene looking at how these families shows up, like everyone in costumes and buying luxurious gifts... well i should limit this only not to indian families, but it's becoming a trend in Malaysia... p/s : every middle to high class family.....

Do you even have to announce to the entire world, well at least not to the entire district that you are living in,  that u r 21 now? have you ever asked urself that, u r now 21 and what have u done so far- productively? What have u done that u can be proud of for next 10 years the most? Who is ur financial investors, is it u or ur parents? If later part is true then do u really think of the necessity for such celebration?

Well i'm not writing this post to demotivate u guys from celebrating or truncate the entire mood of celebration or so similar...but just like a mirror resemblance...sometimes we do have to think about the importance of having something or celebrating something... well i do know if we are about to look reasons for everything, enjoyment in not the term for it...nevertheless moderation is always the key....i'm not asking u to stop enjoying the ever waited time of ur life, but do think about modesty in ur action... Why not do something good for others? when i mean others, i do really mean the one who needs ur care and compassion...money itself is not the answer but there are people who need something more than money, not gold, not diamonds, but LOVE....try to spread some love on ur 21st birthday and why not make this day of ur life as to embark such a noble cause of spreading LOVE...

okay people, when i mean LOVE, it's purely compassion and do not get naughty by flirting around just because i say, spread some LOVE, seriously! haha

Well i'm not in the mood of elucidating more on this, as i reckon u people are grown ups and should know on what should and shouldn't be done, and the wise theory behind ur actions, so period.


have a great week ahead and chaaaaaa


Much love,
param